Aprons, Heels, and Yoga Pants

Balanced Not Frazzled

Balance is one of my favorite words but I don’t know why. The word actually torments me. It’s quite the charade, really. I wear this necklace which says “Balance.” I hope as I wear it, the word somehow absorbs into my body and magically transforms my life. Instead, as soon as my feet hit the…

Keep Fighting

I recently enjoyed a telephone conversation with a dear old friend, whom I haven’t seen in years. Amazing, isn’t it, how years apart won’t change that bond? We covered the topics of raising adult children, and our more relaxed state with our younger ones, who came along later in life. We discussed midlife goals,…

Make Time For Your Love

The time is now. What are we waiting for? Personally, I am waiting for the laundry to get done. That’s right….the world’s next great novel will have to wait. There are children counting on me for the perfect outfit everyday. The reality is, it is more than laundry. If you are raising children, you understand.…

Frustrated Yet Thankful

By: Melissa November 10, 2017

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Devastated today. A dear friend lost her battle with cancer this morning. I am nauseous and exhausted from thinking about it. I’m just so sad. There is never enough time. Nothing can prepare us. We have to face pain sometimes. One of my strongest feelings today was frustration. I was making plans to go see…

Time

By: Melissa November 6, 2017November 6, 2017

Apronschanges, children, divorce, eduaction, home eduaction, homeschool, love, marriage, midlife, motherhood, parenthood, raising children, school, timeLeave a Comment

At a crossroads again. I’ve decided this is what life is all about….decision making. It’s constant. I prefer deciding on what is for breakfast, rather than choosing major life decisions, especially when those decisions will effect the children. I remember a handful of years when life was steady and secure, no major decisions to be…

Homemade Love

By: Melissa May 12, 2017October 19, 2017

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It’s midnight and I am eating a bowl of Cream of Wheat. I put berries in it, because that makes it grown up Cream of Wheat. I am extremely nostalgic. It doesn’t take much for this mind of mine to drift back to memories of my youth. Even this very late dinner does that. It…

Pom Pom Status

By: Melissa April 11, 2017October 19, 2017

nostalgia1970s, 1980s, antiques, changes, childhood memories, fun, nostalgia, pom poms, roller skates, thoughts, vintageLeave a Comment

I’m not into status symbols. I don’t wear a lot of jewelry. I don’t get excited about fancy cars. I like having a nice home but I’ve never dreamt of a mansion. Things were different when I was a child though. When I was a child, it was all about the roller skates….. Hard…

Slow and Sexy

By: Melissa April 11, 2017October 19, 2017

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Sometimes all it takes is a little retail therapy…… Most of us have that one “thing” that makes our heart pitter patter when we walk into a store and see it. We want it, need it, must have it. Sometimes we spend hours window shopping on ebay, just to lay our eyes on our beloved obsession.…

Frozen Pizza, Horror Movies, & Other Imperfections

By: Melissa April 11, 2017October 19, 2017

Aprons, Uncategorizedchanges, children, divorce, feelings, home education, homeschooling, inspiration, motherhood, parenthood, parenting, thoughts, womenLeave a Comment

I’m pretty sure the last time I wrote in a journal I didn’t need reading glasses to see my writing. As I sit by the fire in quiet solitude, sipping wine, writing in my “Follow Your Dreams” journal, the Jason Mraz iHeart station playing for inspiration…..my angelic children are in the basement watching “Jaws…

Chasing Fear

By: Melissa July 25, 2016October 19, 2017

Heels, Uncategorizedanxiety, career, challenge, changes, confidence, fear, goals, growth, midlife, motherhood, selfish, working mom, working motherLeave a Comment

I took a break from most everything in life recently, and studied for my real estate broker exam. It was worth it….I passed. 🙂 Taking a break from everything is a bit of an exaggeration. The laundry, groceries and cleaning did not patiently wait for me to return. Nor did the children’s hungry…